accordions were not of import to me
until you were no longer there
the caramel and gray plaid La-Z-Boy chair
sat gaping at the ceiling wondering as i was
where did Opa go
we didn’t really talk no one taught me how
instinctively you knew though
that i loved your oversized navy blue trousers
and your red suspenders
except for the lederhosen not my style
regret burns hotter at night
while i sit silently on the kitchen counter
alone in the dark sometimes with pained wrists
and old cracked ribs dislocated in my youth
sit along beside me good times
where did Opa go
time rippled down your face
porcelined and freckled
both by illness and by cure
you would stare at mom’s cat
as the din of Lawrence Welk
seemed to echo from the corners of the room
where did Opa go
remember when i was 13
my socks were old and dingy
five sizes too big
and as you shook your head
you took out $50 from your wallet
and motioned me to get new socks
i just shrugged and smiled
turning my back on you
Mutta’s fancy mirror
stabbed me with
your puzzled dewey face
at my ignorant rejection
why did i let go
Opa
Don’t it always seem to go …that we
don’t know what we’ve got till it’s gone.
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Yes I guess now I have certain people woven into my spirit and that’s comforting but it still hurts now that I understand his loneliness and his kindness : ( thanks for reading my friend…
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It was a lovely tribute 😎
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Ty 👴
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Beautiful and poignant write Hon. I also still remember my Grandfather’s chair. Only he sat in it. It fit
his body perfectly.I still wish today that we’d communicated but I was young and really most of the time he just sat in his chair.At Christmas Time he’d call all the grandchildren to his side and hand us each a card with a ten dollar bill in it. Hard lessons are sometimes learned too late. 💜🌼
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thank you for reading and sharing, Jen. it’s heart warming to hear that there are good relations in world. at times, for me at least, i have a hard time, mostly because of what i do for a living, i appreciate you taking the time to share 🙂
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You’re welcome Hon. 💜🌼
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Regret is a hard task master. Beautifully written. I feel the ache…
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thank you, Violet, as i go through life all that really mattered is starting to sift up, but there is comfort in having a few fond memories 🙂
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Wonderfully written. So poignant. I could feel your longing throughout the piece.
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thanks for visiting Len 🙂 its a good longing though
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So raw with emotion… well done.
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thank you, V.J. i appreciate you visiting 🙂
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You’re welcome!
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Your poem “Where Did Opa Go” is incredible beautiful and there are moments when we all feel the pain of chances and deeds undone.
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thanks so much for reading, Karen, yes it’s a cruel pain at times and also a teacher.
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Yes, I agree completely. Karen
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Beautiful! The line “we didn’t really talk no one taught me how” stuck out to me the most.
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Thank you much friend
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Regret so raw, I can feel the pain.
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Precious tribute…’ time rippled down your face…’ I will remember this one and make it mine…. I miss him too.❤
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Thank you friend xoxo
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MB… this one punches right through to the heart. The past decade saw losses of many key figures in my life and it wrenched me apart… I get this… so well. Thanks for sharing it.
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Sometimes what we perceive as loss is a beautiful mural in front of us of all the love we have 😊
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Absolutely true 🤓🙏❤️🙏🤓
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time rippled down your face – you amaze me with your vivid descriptions, this really was how I saw my grandfather
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Thank you xo
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You’ve got me thinking, of my grandchildren, the first born, now a teenage girl, the youngest a girl just 4 and the two boys in between, all precious, all different, all ignore me, all share their time with me, as and when they chose, I ask nothing of them, just ask of myself, to be here as long as I can be, a constant in their life.
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This piece oozes with hearfelt emotion. One of your best! Bravo!
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I just lost my grandmother yesterday, so this hit me hard. I don’t how long ago you lost him, but whenever it was, I am sorry for your loss.
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Likewise friend they are both watching smiling at the earthly miracles God made through them xoxo
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Thank you. I certainly hope they are. 💖
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Profound piece. I love the repetition of the question, and your attention to detail is stunning. ❤️
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The repetition reminded me of when a parent plays peekaboo with a baby and for a brief moment the parent appears to disappear but then they come come back right away but in this piece you end up losing someone forever and there’s very little closure because perhaps that’s an adult you still don’t know how to connect to those special people thanks for reading friend xoxo
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My pleasure! And I love getting a view into what you were thinking. 😘
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Life is not all regrets, but those we have are the lessons we heed.
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So true friend it hadn’t occurred to me to see it that way. Thanks for reading and sharing 😊
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